Just in case if you were wondering, my fiance did call me up the next day to thank me for helping him out when he was unwell, and at that time it made me feel warm and fuzzy and needed. But for no apparent reason my feelings for him have gone totally cold lately. I don't really want to see him, or talk to him, or even want him to touch me. Strangely enough I'm pretty much the same at work and somehow I feel happier when I'm at work than with him. I'm also happier at home with my family. I was thinking that maybe it's the resentment coming out. I resent him for wasting my time, for not taking me seriously, for being selfish and unappreciative, and honestly, while he's sad to leave me for a week to go to the US for training, all that goes through my mind is, "It's just a week. Get over it!"
Perhaps I ought to be more clingy, but unfortuately for him, I'm far from that kind of person. It's taken a lot already to say "Oh honey are you alright?" at every little bunp (of course with the concerned look of expression expected as well , PLUS the tone of voice to match). If it was anyone else, all they'd get is "Hey, you alright?" said more a drawl like "Heyuaright" while not removing my gaze from the TV. It's all so much more effort on top of my natural character. So tiring.
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