Stupidity is in the eye of the beholder

I recently posted as my Facebook status the comment that I think that some people just act stupid, but worse is when people are born stupid, and that I was dealing with someone of the latter. Obviously this person is my fiance. He really is quite thick in the head. Here are a few examples:

1. Looks at the TV blankly while everyone is busy helping out with a chore
2. Tells everyone a secret that I said I confided with him about
3. Knows that I'm tired, tells me to go to sleep early, then calls me at 1am (still messaging me in fact eventhough it's 2:11am)
   

I find him quite embarrassing to the point I sometimes have to apologise for his rudeness. Unfortunately he takes after his dad. And more unfortunately he idolises his dad. So much i have to work on. Sigh!
People say that you should not try to change a person, but I say one should mould their partner in a way so that you can at least face them for a minimum of 5 years of marriage. Do I see any hands up in agreement? Anyway I guess I can leave the moulding at least till tomorrow. That's if he can stop messaging me, that is. By the way, last message I sent was "Just go to sleep. I'm better off with you asleep than have you awake and stressing me out so that I can't sleep"
Hmmmm...that would make a good Facebook status comment.