Saturday, April 18, 2009

I think someone's getting cold feet

It's just a hunch I have, but now that I've got my fiance involved in all of the planning of the wedding, he doesn't seem as excited as he once was. He's handballed me all the wedding stuff by saying something along the lines of "I don't really care" but at the beginning he said he wanted to get involved. I think he's in over his head on this one. I don't think he really expected so much to go into a wedding. It is overwhelming I must admit, but you have to do something. It seems that he just expects me to do all the research and planning, while he just sits there and decides on what he wants and what he doesn't want.
A few days ago he told me that it was boring at work and there was nothing to do. He had internet yet did he do any wedding research? Nope. Especially after I gave him a huge verbal nudge to be more proactive about this, what I got was the "I've used up my allocated internet usage, can't do anything" excuse. What does that have to do with the internet at work?
I guess I'm turning into a bridezilla, but jeez it's just so hard to organise this on my own. Is it such a deal that I want my fiance to get off his arse and do something?
So frustrating.

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